Monday, August 10, 2020

What is your most important question?

 

Books have always proved themselves to be our best companions, and have not only opened realms of knowledge and wisdom, but  have introduced us to great fantasy worlds,  experiences and values that stay with us as long as our heart beats.

It broadens our perspective of life which makes us question a little more, fathom the depth a little more, scratch under the surface a little more and rationalise a little more.

But there are such faction of words that group together to form a question, which we spent our entire lives seeking for the answer.

Then there are some questions which do not have a particular answer known and even if we know ,it may vary from person to person like, when will I be happy? Even if I am then for how long? Am I content with what I have achieved? Have I achieved the internal peace I thought I would? Does everything I hope lead to accomplishment of my desires?

As simple as all of these might sound the real complexity of life lies in answering them. It may happen that answering one of these would add a whole new level of intricacy to the other as none of these question are really simple. They are layered as, if one is not happy he is also believed to be discontent which also leads to another question, what is the cause of this unhappiness? Finding answer to this question holds the potential to disturb any one‘s internal peace, it might even shatter the hopes that keeps us going in life.

                         So what is the solution to the ultimate question i.e. life?

 

As said by a renowned writer “a life that lacks motive lacks meaning”.

The pursuit of happiness is exclusive to everyone. But we as humans have the potential to either glorify or ruin something. We are endowed with the power to think but our own trait of overthinking leads to major problems in our lives, ruining the happiness of today and the hope for tomorrow. We start comparing ourselves to everyone henceforth grows a seed of jealousy amid ourselves causing a whole havoc for our mental peace. Seeing another person content with his life we begin to desire for more, eventually leading to a more stressful life and hence the cycle continues.

In the book Looking for Alaska by John Green there is one such question which has wedged me the most. I always find myself lurking over it again and again:

 

HOW WILL WE EVER GET OUT OF THIS LABYRINTH OF SUFFERING?

 

Our whole life is maze and each day when we go in that wide world we search our way out of that maze. Some of us confine ourselves into one corner and pretend it does not exist. To pretend that they are not lost but home, but that only leads to a life without any thrill of knowing what will be waiting for us at the corner of the road. There are many of us who fear to seek the answers to that question because it leads a way out of our shell of comfort or maybe we are not ready to go to that part of our brain in which we have stacked all our worst fears which may come true in search of that question and we are not yet ready to find it.


 But there are times in our life when we have to come face to face with that question and there will be NO way to run away and hide in the corner. We will have to take charge and become that maze runner who at the end of the day finds the way out.

So readers WHAT IS YOUR MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION which thrives you to get out of the box of your comfort zone and to find the answer which encourages you to be your best self.

 SHREYA TANDON



 

 

                                                                        


41 comments:

  1. What is the question..? Didi

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  2. My mind has been completely blown
    *this level of english*
    I guess I am still illiterate to understand english

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    1. Guess u should go search google to understand some words.

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  3. Nicely done:)
    But made no sense and was too long to read.

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    1. Try reading the complete one u'll get to know

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    2. Life is a maze n we are the runners right. It is really easy to say get out of ur comfort zone n the biggest surprise is waiting on the other end.... But for many of us the end is just living up to the worldly expectations. Not everyone can b kabir from yjhd.. Even books sometimes raise our expectations to such heights that failing to achieve them left us devastated. N the most imp question that is still unanswered is "mere saath he kyu" ? N each n everyone once in their entire life must have came across to this particular question n believe me finding answer to such questions are more painful then letting them go. Ur opinion?????

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    3. But sometimes getting out of your comfort zone is all what you need to do to excel...at the end of the day we all seek those worldly pleasures only...i might say money can't buy happiness but surely it does helps us buy what we need which to contentment....true not everyone can be kabir many are adi too....sometimes we do not have the resources to fulfil our dreams and sometimes we do not even know what our dreams are....but we keep looking right all we want is to be happy at the end of the day....carpe diem my friend( seize the moment) as they" 'cause the same flower that smells today tomorrow maybe dying" one of the lines of my fav poem
      And we all think mere saath hi kyu I'm also not left out of this circle but at the end of the day all i know is everything happens for a reason
      Sometimes the most painful things bring u the most happiness in the end.
      Hope u agree with my answer

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  4. Good effort though....
    You tryna work on it to be more engaging.

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    1. Thank you so much..will surely try to do better next time:)

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  5. Gr8 work ��������

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  6. The most imp question.... if all questions get answered....... Is the life worth living..... What i believe is seeking and thriving for things keeps our life moving......

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  7. It's not that like that ,after asking one question u'll stop thinking? No right each day we hear or see a new thing question arises and we search for the answer. And we are seeking and thriving this way

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  8. This is so well written! I'd love to read more from you both. Big ups!

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  9. Awesomely written...... felt like going back to kindergarten to upgrade my english writing skills.......The most important question of my life that strikes my mind every now n thn is core of all human behavior more or less are similar still we see ourselves different from others....and what we all are doing today to secure our tomorrow will ever be enough!?

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    1. First of all thank you so much for your kind words😊
      Truly yours is one of those questions which do not have a particular answer known....but i surely might try to give a opinion
      It's true we all are made of the same core, the skeleton the muscles every bit of us is same...but what differs is the way we grew up our surrounding, our learnings the experiences everything is entirely different for all of us. Maybe that's the beauty of it all.
      And rationally speaking what we do at present can never be enough for our future...looking back at your past u too might think if i would've done this thing differently my life would be changed...so at the present moment we do things what we think are right maybe we'll regret it in the future but atleast we did something.
      Human desires can never end..what we can try is to do our level best.

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  10. Life is itself a question .... every day we wake up and new questions arises .....if a person is not curious to know the ans ... Than this is life is useless .....from this amazing article I realised I too have many questions in my life and it's imp to have ques in ur life in order to get ans

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    1. Thank you so very much and indeed life is an exam...all you will get is more questions at each step☺

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  11. This is one of the most mesmerizing work that I've seen in a while. Keep it up. Looking forward for more from you.

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  12. Best thing I saw on internet today...
    Thanks to you.

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  13. It's unbelievable to see such a masterpiece from a young writer. Totally incredible.

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  14. *The only way out of the labyrinth of suffering is to forgive*

    Wow Di, this blog is an absolute masterclass in Writing!

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  15. Excellent..Shreya ..
    Keep it up..

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What is your most important question?

  Books have always proved themselves to be our best companions, and have not only opened realms of knowledge and wisdom, but   have intro...