Monday, August 10, 2020

What is your most important question?

 

Books have always proved themselves to be our best companions, and have not only opened realms of knowledge and wisdom, but  have introduced us to great fantasy worlds,  experiences and values that stay with us as long as our heart beats.

It broadens our perspective of life which makes us question a little more, fathom the depth a little more, scratch under the surface a little more and rationalise a little more.

But there are such faction of words that group together to form a question, which we spent our entire lives seeking for the answer.

Then there are some questions which do not have a particular answer known and even if we know ,it may vary from person to person like, when will I be happy? Even if I am then for how long? Am I content with what I have achieved? Have I achieved the internal peace I thought I would? Does everything I hope lead to accomplishment of my desires?

As simple as all of these might sound the real complexity of life lies in answering them. It may happen that answering one of these would add a whole new level of intricacy to the other as none of these question are really simple. They are layered as, if one is not happy he is also believed to be discontent which also leads to another question, what is the cause of this unhappiness? Finding answer to this question holds the potential to disturb any one‘s internal peace, it might even shatter the hopes that keeps us going in life.

                         So what is the solution to the ultimate question i.e. life?

 

As said by a renowned writer “a life that lacks motive lacks meaning”.

The pursuit of happiness is exclusive to everyone. But we as humans have the potential to either glorify or ruin something. We are endowed with the power to think but our own trait of overthinking leads to major problems in our lives, ruining the happiness of today and the hope for tomorrow. We start comparing ourselves to everyone henceforth grows a seed of jealousy amid ourselves causing a whole havoc for our mental peace. Seeing another person content with his life we begin to desire for more, eventually leading to a more stressful life and hence the cycle continues.

In the book Looking for Alaska by John Green there is one such question which has wedged me the most. I always find myself lurking over it again and again:

 

HOW WILL WE EVER GET OUT OF THIS LABYRINTH OF SUFFERING?

 

Our whole life is maze and each day when we go in that wide world we search our way out of that maze. Some of us confine ourselves into one corner and pretend it does not exist. To pretend that they are not lost but home, but that only leads to a life without any thrill of knowing what will be waiting for us at the corner of the road. There are many of us who fear to seek the answers to that question because it leads a way out of our shell of comfort or maybe we are not ready to go to that part of our brain in which we have stacked all our worst fears which may come true in search of that question and we are not yet ready to find it.


 But there are times in our life when we have to come face to face with that question and there will be NO way to run away and hide in the corner. We will have to take charge and become that maze runner who at the end of the day finds the way out.

So readers WHAT IS YOUR MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION which thrives you to get out of the box of your comfort zone and to find the answer which encourages you to be your best self.

 SHREYA TANDON



 

 

                                                                        


What is your most important question?

  Books have always proved themselves to be our best companions, and have not only opened realms of knowledge and wisdom, but   have intro...